{"id":126,"date":"2024-05-31T01:21:00","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T01:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=126"},"modified":"2024-04-13T10:09:48","modified_gmt":"2024-04-13T10:09:48","slug":"first-comes-love-then-comes-marriage-then-comes-eleventh-daily-dose-of-third-times-the-charm-1996-2002","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=126","title":{"rendered":"First Comes Love . . . then Comes Marriage . . . then Comes . . . [eleventh daily dose of Third Time&#8217;s the Charm [1996-2002]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\" align=\"center\">Ace and I planned our first arrival for two years later, the next time the two year legislative cycle meant we wouldn\u2019t be in session.&nbsp; We did lots of planning, both family-wise and otherwise, accommodating our legislative duties.&nbsp; Because we represented two different districts we maintained two separate homes.&nbsp; It\u2019s why Jack was nicknamed \u201cRV\u201d while he was in the womb.&nbsp; If the House adjourned first we ended up at my place with me cooking; if the Senate adjourned first then we hit the sheets at El\u2019s place, but I invariably would get up in the middle of the night and make my way home.&nbsp; There\u2019s a rule, understandable, that you have to live where you represent.&nbsp; I kept it up even though folks in my District we\u2019re telling me \u201cWe don\u2019t care if you live on the moon, we just want you to stay being our Rep.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_127\" style=\"width: 201px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/responsibilityplunge.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-127\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-127 \" style=\"margin: 5px;\" alt=\"responsibilityplunge\" src=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/responsibilityplunge-191x300.jpg\" width=\"191\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/responsibilityplunge-191x300.jpg 191w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/responsibilityplunge.jpg 436w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 191px) 100vw, 191px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-127\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Taking the responsibility plunge<\/p><\/div>\n<p>RV was conceived in a cottage a sandy hundred steps from Gull Lake.&nbsp; It was a cold early October day in 1996.&nbsp; The nine month timing with the next legislative adjournment was saying \u201cNow\u2019s The Time.\u201d&nbsp; But I was saying, \u201cWhoa, are we really going to do this?\u201d&nbsp; Took a real cold plunge in Gull Lake, thought quickly, jumped out, came back to the cottage, said \u201cHey Baby . . .\u201d and started in on some serious family planning.&nbsp; In those moments I truly grasped what the next score years meant in terms of taking on responsibility; what I had no idea about was how much fun being a Father would be.&nbsp; (Read \u201cPleasures\u201d Story.)<\/p>\n<p>However, being responsible and RV\u2019ing at the same time just couldn\u2019t hold up.&nbsp; The kid<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">s<\/span> (by now) needed one school district, one neighborhood, one house to grow up in, and, after the 2002 legislative map didn\u2019t include a living room bridge across the railroad tracks that divided our adjoining districts, I said:&nbsp; \u201cYou know Ace, you\u2019re pretty good at this politics business; we need a woman\u2019s voice up there; I\u2019m going to retire and move in with you full-time, lock, stock and barrel, baseball bats, baseball cards and baseball shoes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow:&nbsp; Lucky Again<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ace and I planned our first arrival for two years later, the next time the two year legislative cycle meant we wouldn\u2019t be in session.&nbsp; We did lots of planning, both family-wise and otherwise, accommodating our legislative duties.&nbsp; Because we &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=126\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=126"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1861,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions\/1861"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=126"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=126"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=126"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}