{"id":188,"date":"2024-04-18T01:17:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-18T01:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=188"},"modified":"2024-03-09T10:03:25","modified_gmt":"2024-03-09T10:03:25","slug":"keep-it-zipped-or-pay-the-consequences-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=188","title":{"rendered":"Keep It Zipped or Pay the Consequences  [2011]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/womens-power-rt-side-up.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-190 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/womens-power-rt-side-up-171x300.jpg\" alt=\"womens power rt side up\" width=\"171\" height=\"300\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A Man\u2019s Right to Choose Ends Where a Woman\u2019s Begins<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Although the words do not appear in the United States Constitution, under the \u201cpenumbras\u201d to the Bill of Rights a woman has the right to choose to be a parent or not be a parent up to the point her fetus (and your fetus?) becomes \u201cviable.\u201d * In other words, at least under the U.S. Supreme Court\u2019s current construction of our Constitution to keep up with Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes\u2019 adage that the law is more based upon the experience of the people than logic (pro-choice fits modern times morality) a woman can choose to have an abortion until the third trimester of her pregnancy without government interference.&nbsp; My question for you boys:&nbsp; Is it your pregnancy too?&nbsp; Do you have any say in being a father or not?<\/p>\n<p>This actually came up in a law case I handled.&nbsp; Soon-to-be-Dad was a patient in a hospital when a (not so pretty) nurse offered to give him a hand job late one night.&nbsp; She knew he was a very rich man, put a rubber on him, captured his semen, and artificially inseminated herself when he wasn\u2019t looking.&nbsp; (Foreshadowing here a little bit:&nbsp; Don\u2019t leave any used rubbers lying around \u2013 flush them!)&nbsp; The question I faced as a lawyer was whether or not a man also has a right to choose under the penumbras?&nbsp; Given the fact that the child had already been born, does the right to choose include forbidding a court from determining fatherhood?&nbsp; After all, the law does guarantee equal protection, equal justice, regardless of race, gender or economic status.<\/p>\n<p>In my case, it was a year after his stay in the hospital that the Sheriff showed up at his door with the Paternity Summons to appear in court and answer the charges that he was a father and owed child support; that\u2019s when he hired me.<\/p>\n<p>______<\/p>\n<p>*This was written before the infamous 2022 <em>Dobbs<\/em> case overruling <em>Roe<\/em> v <em>Wade<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">Tomorrow:&nbsp; Weighing the Scales of Justice<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<hr align=\"center\" noshade=\"noshade\" size=\"1\" width=\"100%\">\n<\/div>\n<p>No virus found in this message.<br \/>\nChecked by AVG &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.avg.com\/\">www.avg.com<\/a><br \/>\nVersion: 2013.0.3462 \/ Virus Database: 3658\/6909 &#8211; Release Date: 12\/10\/13<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A Man\u2019s Right to Choose Ends Where a Woman\u2019s Begins Although the words do not appear in the United States Constitution, under the \u201cpenumbras\u201d to the Bill of Rights a woman has the right to choose to be a parent &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=188\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[19],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=188"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1789,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188\/revisions\/1789"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}