{"id":1951,"date":"2023-12-20T01:21:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-20T01:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=1951"},"modified":"2023-11-15T14:22:09","modified_gmt":"2023-11-15T14:22:09","slug":"act-3-back-in-utopian-st-paul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=1951","title":{"rendered":"Act 3: Back in Utopian St. Paul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Act Three of A Complex Apology: &nbsp;&nbsp;Back in Utopian Saint Paul<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>SCENE ONE:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Fast forward to the late 1980s.&nbsp; You had to figure that the Darymple boys and Joy\u2019s daughters would become expert tobogganists, really good downhill skiiers (right in their front yard), and some of the most popular kids in town.&nbsp; Meanwhile, the monotony of marriage surfaced surreptitiously with bedroom eyes exchanged across backyard fences and the ladies\u2019 book club taking up a book of the adventures in the science of female desire.&nbsp; Ms. Darymple simply couldn\u2019t take her mind off how handsome and well-built the guy next door was.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/lady-Darymple.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"300\" height=\"252\" src=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/lady-Darymple-300x252.jpg\" alt=\"lady Darymple\" class=\"wp-image-915\" srcset=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/lady-Darymple-300x252.jpg 300w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/lady-Darymple-1024x862.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/lady-Darymple-356x300.jpg 356w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/lady-Darymple.jpg 1276w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Mrs. Darymple<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>One thing led to another and one afternoon while the boys were out playing she found herself asking that handsome fellow to help her move some furniture into the Grandmother Apartment above her garage (recently constructed, yet to be occupied).&nbsp; A romance ensued and once again an East Como Boulevarder was facing an ethical dilemma wondering if what she was doing was right.&nbsp; Turns-out it was all serendipitous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While lady Darymple was having a secret life of great sex, Mr. Darymple was often working late at the office and having his own secret affair.&nbsp; When they both found out about each other\u2019s unfaithfulness, it saved the marriage!&nbsp; They found out they still loved each other, they really loved their kids, and that their disagreements and disappointments \u2013 many as they were \u2013 no longer loomed as important given their separate pursuits of happiness.&nbsp; Only their closest friends (and a couple of neighbors) knew about their open marriage and how one time even Ms. Darymple invited her overnite beau into the kitchen for breakfast with Mr. Darymple.&nbsp; No apologies necessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tomorrow:&nbsp; Scene Two<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Act Three of A Complex Apology: &nbsp;&nbsp;Back in Utopian Saint Paul SCENE ONE:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Fast forward to the late 1980s.&nbsp; You had to figure that the Darymple boys and Joy\u2019s daughters would become expert tobogganists, really good downhill skiiers (right in &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=1951\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[22],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1951"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1951"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1951\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1953,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1951\/revisions\/1953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1951"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1951"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1951"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}