{"id":356,"date":"2024-05-20T01:32:00","date_gmt":"2024-05-20T01:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=356"},"modified":"2024-03-09T10:47:06","modified_gmt":"2024-03-09T10:47:06","slug":"second-time-1984-second-daily-dose-to-third-times-the-charm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=356","title":{"rendered":"Second Time 1984  [second daily dose to Third Time&#8217;s the Charm]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After learning a little bit more about each other we went out dancing, which I\u2019ll tell about in a minute, but first I\u2019ve got to back-up to when I first learned what her name was.&nbsp; In the 80s the Twin Cities Chapter of the National Lawyers Guild would have a New Year\u2019s Eve party in a downtown warehouse to raise money to send a soon-to-be law school graduate to be a Law Clerk somewhere doing social justice work following our creed:&nbsp; \u201cHuman Rights Before Property Rights.\u201d&nbsp; In 1984 our Awardee was Ellen Anderson to go to Brownsville, Texas to work on immigration issues.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_357\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/NLG-rt-side-up.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-357\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-357 \" alt=\"Human Rights Before Property Rights\" src=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/NLG-rt-side-up-300x245.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"245\" srcset=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/NLG-rt-side-up-300x245.jpg 300w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/NLG-rt-side-up-366x300.jpg 366w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/NLG-rt-side-up.jpg 381w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-357\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Human Rights Before Property Rights<\/p><\/div>\n<p>After the award ceremony, there was always lots of dancing and general merriment.&nbsp; At one point that night Ellen and I and some guy I didn\u2019t know are on the same elevator, and she seemed really unhappy but I didn\u2019t ask why given there was this other guy.<\/p>\n<p>Now back to being on me &amp; Ellen\u2019s first date, I ask her, \u201cWhatever were you so unhappy about?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh dear,\u201d she says, \u201cDid I look that unhappy?&nbsp; Well, I\u2019d just that minute broken-up with my boyfriend of 6 years.&nbsp; I decided it was time to let him know right after I got that award.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWell am I ever glad you did, come on let\u2019s dance!\u201d was my pretty nifty response.<\/p>\n<p>Ellen tells our first date story better than me.&nbsp; I\u2019m better at telling about our first dance.&nbsp; Since I\u2019ve never been sure if Ellen quite appreciates The First Dance story, let\u2019s skip it \u2013 at least for now.&nbsp; Ellen always tells everybody it was a great first date because, besides not having the pressure that comes from being alone by yourselves, we went out dancing with three of my former girlfriends.&nbsp; (<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Former<\/span> is important \u2013 read \u201cMy Apologies to Hannah &amp; Annie.\u201d)&nbsp; So, how did it come to pass, you ask, that there\u2019s so many of us on a first date?<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">Tomorrow:&nbsp; Third Time<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; After learning a little bit more about each other we went out dancing, which I\u2019ll tell about in a minute, but first I\u2019ve got to back-up to when I first learned what her name was.&nbsp; In the 80s the &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=356\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/356"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=356"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/356\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1843,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/356\/revisions\/1843"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=356"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=356"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=356"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}