{"id":359,"date":"2024-05-21T01:30:00","date_gmt":"2024-05-21T01:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=359"},"modified":"2024-04-13T09:57:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-13T09:57:10","slug":"third-time-1989-third-daily-dose-of-third-times-the-charm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=359","title":{"rendered":"Third Time 1989  [third daily dose of Third Time&#8217;s the Charm]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Well, the Wellstone Campaign was kicking off in the Fall of 1989.&nbsp; Both of us were Wellstone volunteers.&nbsp; I was at a birthday party for a Lawyer\u2019s Guild friend.&nbsp; There was Ellen and I asked her to dance.&nbsp; (This is The First Dance I\u2019m talking about.)&nbsp; Got her phone number.&nbsp; Week later called for a date.&nbsp; The day of the big night arrived and she calls saying she\u2019s sick but can she have a rain check.&nbsp; \u201cWell,\u201d I said, \u201cthere\u2019s a bunch of us going out dancing Wednesday nite before Thanksgiving, if you want to come with . . .?\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_64\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/weddingWellstone.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-64\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-64 \" alt=\"A populist for all time - Sen. Paul Wellstone, Ellen, Andy &amp; Shelia\" src=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/weddingWellstone-300x201.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/weddingWellstone-300x201.jpg 300w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/weddingWellstone-446x300.jpg 446w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/weddingWellstone.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-64\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A populist for all time &#8211; Sen. Paul Wellstone, Ellen, Andy &amp; Shelia<\/p><\/div>\n<p>She said it sounded great and that\u2019s how she met Vickie, who had married and moved to Chicago, and Kathleen, just a friend by then, and Trudie, who I only flirted with.&nbsp; All friends from DFL politics.&nbsp;&nbsp; (In Minnesota the Democratic Party is known as the Democratic Farmer Labor Party, or DFL.)&nbsp; Vickie was coming back from Chicago for the Thanksgiving Weekend and Kathleen had arranged for all of us to get together.<\/p>\n<p>Ellen claims the reason that first date was so great was because she learned much about me from the others.&nbsp; Good thing Vickie, Kathleen and Trudie still adored me as a person, even if our love was only figurative at that point.&nbsp; If there\u2019s a lesson here boys, I\u2019m not sure quite how to tell it, I guess it depends on how well you studied the lessons in the \u201cApologies to Hannah &amp; Annie\u201d story.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">Tomorrow:&nbsp; First Came Love . . .<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Well, the Wellstone Campaign was kicking off in the Fall of 1989.&nbsp; Both of us were Wellstone volunteers.&nbsp; I was at a birthday party for a Lawyer\u2019s Guild friend.&nbsp; There was Ellen and I asked her to dance.&nbsp; (This &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=359\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=359"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1844,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359\/revisions\/1844"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=359"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=359"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=359"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}