{"id":405,"date":"2024-06-10T01:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-10T01:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=405"},"modified":"2024-04-13T10:20:19","modified_gmt":"2024-04-13T10:20:19","slug":"the-pleasures-of-being-a-father-1995","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=405","title":{"rendered":"The Pleasures of Being a Father  [1995]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>&#8220;Un bon pere apprend a son fils la responsabilite et donne alors sa&nbsp;responsabilite de fils&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/i>Jack Dawkins, age 7&nbsp;&nbsp;<i>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/i><\/p>\n<p>El and I honeymooned in Europe, but we didn\u2019t get there any normal way.&nbsp; We took the Amtrak sleeper car to NYC, bought a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Village Voice<\/span> and started searching for the cheapest one-way tickets to anywhere in Europe.&nbsp; We found an ad saying just exactly that and the ticket place&nbsp;was only 4 blocks away from where we were sitting.<\/p>\n<p>From thereon it was like the scene in <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The Sting<\/span>.&nbsp; It\u2019s an old building, even dingy; the elevator we take to the fifth floor is the old-fashioned close-the-gate-yourself type; and when we walk into the \u201coffice,\u201d it\u2019s a boiler-room operation scene:&nbsp; card table desks each with a telephone; people working the phones with head-sets on; and a young bearded gentleman comes up with a friendly, serious face.&nbsp; \u201cCan we get a cheap plane ticket to Europe?\u201d I ask.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSure,\u201d he says, \u201cfor $100 each I can get you anywhere in Europe \u2013 just depends on what day you want to fly.&nbsp; Madrid tomorrow?&nbsp; Frankfort Thursday?&nbsp; Prague on Friday?\u201d&nbsp; Madrid tomorrow we say, and find out he only takes cash and then only hand-writes up a receipt (not close to a printed ticket), and says \u201cTake this to the Air Madrid counter at JFK tomorrow.&nbsp; Be there by noon.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So El\u2019s pretty suspicious but I\u2019m feeling like this worked exactly the best we had imagined.&nbsp; To Ellen\u2019s ever-lasting credit, she gave me the benefit of the doubt that we could do our honeymoon almost 100% spontaneously \u2013 the only sure thing was that we had to be back in two months.&nbsp; Rosie, as I sometimes called her, has a question, so she calls the number in the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Village Voice<\/span> ad, worse than no answer, the line is disconnected!&nbsp;&nbsp; Now I have my doubts too, but I tell her, \u201cLook, we budgeted to lose this $100 and buy stand-by tickets \u2013 so what\u2019s to worry \u2013 let\u2019s see if it works.\u201d&nbsp; We spent the second night of our honeymoon in some motel just across the Hudson on the Jersey side of the Holland Tunnel.<\/p>\n<p>Next morning we take the subway to JFK, find the Air Madrid counter, and hand over our receipts.&nbsp; \u201cOh,\u201d she says, \u201cwe take these but it\u2019ll cost you each another $50.\u201d&nbsp; So we pay cash again and get on the plane.&nbsp; By then the ticket taker lady and others in line knew it was our honeymoon and surprised us with a champagne-filled flight across the Atlantic.&nbsp; That\u2019s how we started our marriage.&nbsp; The rest follows.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/LegDeskBaby.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-52 \" alt=\"Seven week-old Jack at the Capitol\" src=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/LegDeskBaby-300x202.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"202\" srcset=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/LegDeskBaby-300x202.jpg 300w, http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/LegDeskBaby.jpg 418w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Seven week-old Jack at the Capitol<\/p><\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Tomorrow:&nbsp; Our Marriage<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Un bon pere apprend a son fils la responsabilite et donne alors sa&nbsp;responsabilite de fils&#8221;&nbsp;&nbsp;Jack Dawkins, age 7&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; El and I honeymooned in Europe, but we didn\u2019t get there any normal way.&nbsp; We took the Amtrak sleeper car to NYC, &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/?p=405\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=405"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1873,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405\/revisions\/1873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=405"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=405"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/andydawkins.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=405"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}